"In the US, abortion is framed as a deeply moral and highly emotional issue. In the public imagination, the choice to have an abortion is a wrenching one, one that often leaves women feeling emotionally fragile for months and years afterward. No doubt this is sometimes the case. But for many women, my friend included, it is not a wrenching or painful decision, but an easy and obvious and matter of fact one.
But we don’t have a cultural script for those women. When women speak publicly about their abortions – which, given the stigma around abortion, happens very rarely – we expect them to speak with reverence, not relief. We expect to hear stories of excruciating indecision, not of easy, obvious choices. We don’t have a blueprint for women who weren’t wracked with indecision, women who felt emotional attachment neither to the fetus nor to the decision to terminate it. And as a result, we also lack a script for supportive friends that doesn’t somehow frame abortion as a tragic illness."  -

via Feministing, “A new script for talking about abortion”

(thanks to keepyourboehneroutofmyuterus for sending this to me!)

Amazing. This describes the stigma around those who get abortions SO well. 

My decision was not a hard one. It wasn’t gut-wrenching or emotional for me in any way.

I am proud of myself for making that decision. And I am relieved. 

(via sheiswolf)